How do i my tarantula?

Im wating for the molt to come up but it hasnt happened yet. Ive had it for about a month and two weeks now. I was told it was a male, but i havent seen any hooks/spurs on the two front legs and the pedipalps do not have enlarged tips. I have taken pictures of the underside of him if anyone can help me out. Im not sure how to put them on here but i can send them in an email, i have a few so hopefully one will tell it all. My email is christinacooper17@yahoo.com.