Am I the only one confused about who to vote for?

It seems to me that both parties, Democrat and Republican, have dedicated this election to confusing the American voters. Between all of the lies, blames, self-contradictions, personal/family stabs, and name calling, it seems that we are in a "Damned if I do/Damned if I don't" situation when it comes down to who to vote for. Both sides seem to me, to equally share faults, and promise. Who is for the poor, the disabled, the elderly, and the Americans that are burdened with decisions like - how do I get health/medical/dental/life insurance, when I can't even afford medications, or gas, to go get medications? Why give tax breaks to American companies that send jobs overseas? What is 'pork', is this just special individual interest? How can we trust millionaires running our country to help the poor, when they don't have to worry about clothing, feeding, protecting, and just plain providing for their families? We pay taxes, that pay the American leaders salaries, don't we? It seems like we are providing our leaders with "The life of Riley", at the expense of not being able to provide for our own loved ones. Is there 'anyone' in this Yahoo community that can honestly, and sincerely explain this to me? Also, I would appreciate that "all" individuals who just want to be smarta##es and don't know what they are talking about, refrain from any remarks. Plus, I could care less about skin color, as I feel that this election should not be decided racially!!